Why I Created This Workbook
Most people want to get end-of-life planning over with—fill out the forms, check the boxes, move on. And yes, there are quick ways to do that. But when we rush, we miss an opportunity.
Planning for death isn’t just about preparing for the end—it’s about gaining clarity on what matters most, in both death and life.
This workbook flips that instinct on its head. By slowing down and engaging with these decisions thoughtfully, you’re not just planning—you’re consciously exploring your relationship with death to clarify your values and priorities, empowering you to make meaningful choices. It’s about considering what kind of care you’d want, how you’d like to be remembered, and what truly brings you peace.
These aren’t just end-of-life questions—they’re life questions. And when you approach them with intention, the process can be transformative, offering relief, clarity, and a deeper sense of alignment—both for yourself and for the people you care about.
I created this workbook as a way to make those conversations and decisions feel doable, human, and meaningful. Drawing on my training as a death doula, anthropologist, and designer, I’ve designed this tool to be practical, flexible, and thoughtful.
—Rebecca Pardo, The Nightside
Practical Planning Tools: Easy-to-use forms to document your wishes and preferences.
Reflective Prompts: Thoughtful questions to help you explore your values and priorities for different scenarios.
Creative Exercises: Invitations to express yourself through storytelling and legacy-building.
Organizational Support: Space to gather your documents, notes, and reflections in one place.
Whether you’re just starting or revisiting your plans, the workbook offers a structured yet flexible process that works for you.
What You’ll Find Inside
This workbook takes you step-by-step through a holistic planning process, offering a variety of formats and activities to make the experience engaging:
Why This Workbook is Different
This isn’t just a checklist or a set of forms—it’s a comprehensive and guided journey that makes planning approachable, thoughtful, and even empowering.
Rooted in Expertise: This workbook is the culmination of years of research, hands-on experience, and thoughtful design. It reflects deep learning, real-world feedback, and iteration to create a truly transformative resource.
Holistic and Comprehensive: Covers every aspect of end-of-life planning—emotional, practical, relational, and creative—to ensure nothing is overlooked.
Engaging and Accessible: Uses a mix of formats—reflection prompts, planning templates, creative exercises, and practical tools—to meet you where you are.
Built for Connection: Perfect for individual use or as a way to collaborate with loved ones, like starting meaningful conversations with your parents or preparing as a family.
Adapts to Real Life: Flexible and adaptable, this workbook grows with you as your needs and circumstances change.
Designed for Canadians: It includes province-specific resources, legal considerations, and guidance tailored to Canadian laws and practices.
Digital Resource Library
When you order My End-of-Life Workbook, you’ll also get access to an online resource hub designed to support and expand your planning process.
The companion site includes:
Canada-Wide Guidance – General information on wills, estate planning, financial considerations, and digital legacy planning.
Province-Specific Legal & Healthcare Documents – Advance directives, power of attorney forms, and estate planning laws tailored to your region.
Deathcare & Funeral Planning by Province – Regulations for burial, cremation, green burials, body disposition rights, and available financial assistance.
Equitable & Culturally Sensitive Deathcare – Resources tailored for LGBTQ+ individuals, Indigenous communities, and those with specific religious or cultural practices, ensuring your end-of-life wishes are understood and respected.
Extra Templates from the Workbook – Extra copies of reflection and exploration tools, as well as practical info templates so that you can update them whenever you like.
Whether you're using the workbook on your own or with loved ones, the online resources give you flexibility, up-to-date info, and additional guidance—so you’re never navigating this alone.
Access info will be included inside your printed workbook.
Who Is This Workbook For?
Whether you’re navigating your own planning or helping someone else, this workbook offers gentle, grounded guidance.
For Yourself: Gain clarity and peace of mind by documenting your wishes in a way that reflects your values.
For Your Parents or Loved Ones: Use the workbook as a conversation starter and collaborative tool to navigate planning together.
For Families: Create a shared understanding and make decisions that honor everyone’s needs.
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The first edition of My End-of-Life Workbook is a limited run of 100 copies. Pre-order today to reserve your copy and receive an exclusive discount.
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